5. BE WITH SOMEONE WHO GIVES A CRAP WHEN YOU’RE UPSET, EVEN IF HE CAUSED IT.
If you’re down and out, he should be there as support to pick you back up and make you feel better about whatever the situation may be. Be with the guy who, even in the midst of an argument, is mature enough to want to talk crap out — not only because you’re both mature adults, but because he cares enough to keep the relationship he has with you.
6. BE WITH SOMEONE WHO’S PROUD OF WHO YOU ARE RIGHT NOW.
The guy you’re with should be a guy who brags about just how truly fantastic you are, because you are. Be with a guy who complements your life goals and propels and challenges you in the all the right ways to be the best version of you that you can be. He should love who you are and all that you’re destined to become.
7. BE WITH SOMEONE WHO DOESN’T HESITATE TO STAND UP FOR YOU.
A guy who’s truly worthy of your time and commitment is one who’s always going to stand in your corner and be there to back you up when crap hits the fan. Don’t waste your time on someone who’s only going to make you feel alone in your struggles — you deserve more.