How to initiate sex – 16 moves to take the lead like a boss
Initiating sex, whether as a man or woman, is intimidating. Most are nervous to make the first move, especially if we don’t know the person well. I saw one guy and was terrified to make the first move. I could never figure out if he was into sex or if he even wanted to. Eventually, I asked him if he wanted to have sex.
I didn’t know what to do, but you don’t have to ask your partner straight up. I mean, it could be a bit of a buzz kill. So, you need to know the other ways for how to initiate sex. Once you pass that awkward phase, you’ll be initiating sex all the time.
#1 Don’t think of this as a man’s job. If you’re a woman, you may hesitate to do this because you think it’s the man’s job.
Just because he isn’t initiating sex doesn’t mean he doesn’t want to have sex. Now, if you do this and he says no, then that’s different. Then, he doesn’t feel like having sex at this moment. But don’t think he’s saying no because he wants to be the one to tell you when you should have sex.