Settling isn’t just something women should be warned against — guys are in just as much danger of ending up with someone they’re not totally crazy about, and that sucks for both of us. I’m not going to stick around if it’s clear that a guy is more into the idea of me than who I actually am. Here’s why you need to be totally sure about me or leave me alone:
1. YOU NEED TO LIKE ME FOR ME.
I’m not a replacement for your ex-girlfriend, a way to prove to your family that you’re finally in love, or social media bragging fodder. I’m a real human being with a personality and a lot of really great qualities (if I do say so myself). You need to like me for me and appreciate all the awesome things that make me who I am. If you don’t, then I don’t see this working out.