5. I DON’T WANT TO FEEL BAD ABOUT MYSELF.
If you settle for me, then one thing is guaranteed to happen: I’m going to feel pretty awful about myself. I’m going to wonder why you don’t feel the same way and if I said or did something along the way to change your mind.
The truth is, of course, that I did absolutely nothing and this is just the way that it goes sometimes. So why would I let myself go through this ridiculous mental exercise?
6. YOU CAN’T FORCE MATTERS OF THE HEART.
It’s totally silly and stupid to think that you could make something out of nothing. If you’re not crazy about me, then you’re forcing the relationship, and that’s only going to make both of us absolutely miserable. The sooner you realize this, the better.